[2022-11-25] Choose to be choosy

It's that time of year when there seems to be so much to do and not enough time to do it. It's easy to become consumed with expectations—often ones we put on ourselves—and to start feeling overwhelmed.

I've heard some people say that they're not in the Christmas spirit. I understand that. It's been a challenging few years. Some may have decided that the Grinch—having stolen the last two Christmases—can have this one too.

I, on the other hand, am filled with Christmas spirit, but not for everything. I love the great food of the season, but not the shopping. I like decorations, but few modern Christmas songs. I'm happy to send Christmas cards, but dislike wrapping presents. I like giving, but hate the anxiety that comes with wondering whether I'm buying the right thing. I like spending time with loved ones, but hate malls and crowds.

So I choose to be choosy. And like many choices I'm making these days, I'm taking the best and leaving the rest. Consistent with my priorities, this year, I will be focusing on family, friends, food, health and peace.