[2023-10-27] Compendium of posts: Retirement

As I promised in last night's post, I have created a new grouping on my Categories page called Retirement, Transitions and Aging Gracefully (see list of posts below). I often get asked about retirement: preparing for it, living it, thriving in it. Not surprisingly, then, retirement is a recurring theme in Jenesis.

It's been more than two years since I announced my intention to retire from Canada's Public Service and more than three years since I left the workforce after my unexpected diagnosis with ovarian cancer. My decision to retire felt bittersweet at the time—as I said then, it felt anticlimactic to retire after a year's medical leave.

However, once my decision to wind up my career was made and communicated, I settled into retirement, and it has felt wonderful ever since. I took the advice of the many people who wished me well in the next phase of my life. I didn't look back and, instead, focused on what lay ahead. I acknowledged that my retirement would be a joy to me and to those who loved me. I heeded the advice not to overcommit. I trusted that I was—as one person said—off to share my light with the rest of the world. And I recognized my value beyond work, especially my commitment to raising awareness of ovarian cancer, which someone called my most important public service.

Four months after my official retirement, I reflected on three questions that one can ask oneself to assess whether a role is or would be a good fit—be it paid employment or a voluntary role during one's career or in retirement. The three questions were these: Am I learning? Am I making a difference? Is my work meaningful? I concluded that I was learning, making a difference and doing meaningful work, largely thanks to my blog.

And a year into retirement, I shared eight tips for having a happy, post-career life:
  1. Define your mission or your priorities – What will give you a sense of purpose?
  2. Plan your activities – What hobbies or interests bring you joy?
  3. Invest in personal relationships – Whom do you want to stay in touch with? Do you want to make new friends?
  4. Keep learning – What subject do you want to learn about or deepen your knowledge of?
  5. Give back – What talents can you use in the service of others?
  6. Tackle a project – What task would you undertake now that you have time?
  7. Develop a routine – What does an ideal day look like?
  8. Take care of your health – What activities do you want to stop, start or expand to take better care of yourself?

I struggled with the question of whether or not to work after retiring. After much reflection each time, I turned down every invitation for paid employment that came my way because I couldn't find the sweet spot between meaningful work on the one hand and optimal use of my talents on the other. Instead, I pursued a voluntary opportunity with Ovarian Cancer Canada on its Board of Directors because the work was both meaningful and a good use of my talents.

To my friend who begins the retirement countdown next month, I hope that these posts will inspire you to imagine a future filled with purposeful productivity, enriching relationships and enduring health.

Retirement, Transitions and Aging Gracefully
  • [2021-07-23] Retirement - the announcement of my retirement from Canada's Public Service, which felt both bittersweet and anticlimactic, coming after a year of medical leave to deal with ovarian cancer
  • [2021-07-24] Transition - advice from readers on how to navigate the transition to retirement, including don't look back, don't overcommit, recognize your value beyond work, and begin your new chapter
  • [2021-09-23] Thank you CPAB - my thanks to my team in the Communications and Public Affairs Branch for their tributes, stories, videos, smiles, surprises and love during my virtual retirement sendoff
  • [2022-03-16] Three questions - three questions to help you assess whether a role is or would be a good fit—be it paid employment or a voluntary role during your career or in retirement
  • [2022-06-28] Purple with a red hat - an amusing look at things we'll do differently as we grow older and bolder—the things we'll let go of, the principles we'll stand on, the conventions we'll drop
  • [2022-09-06] Happy retirement - a year after retiring, I reflected on what I had learned, sharing eight tips to help people prepare for the emotional effort needed when bowing out of the world of work
  • [2022-11-28] Freedom to choose - how I schedule my day in retirement versus when employed: the biggest difference is the freedom to choose what I do in most moments
  • [2023-02-07] Retirement is not a time to retreat - if you're contemplating retirement, think of it less as withdrawing from your career and more as moving forward with a new phase of productivity, purpose and contribution—starting older
  • [2023-03-10] To work or not to work after retirement - paid employment after retirement may offer extra income, a cure for boredom, social engagement, a sense of purpose, a way to fill time, and a means of remaining mentally, socially and physically active, but if you're not seeking those things, the job may not be worth the diminished time, greater stress and increased complexity
  • [2023-09-05] Life is the story you tell yourself - life transitions are a skill we can and must master: to navigate life's disruptions, begin with your transition superpower, accept your emotions, try something new, seek wisdom from others, rewrite your life story
  • [2023-10-18] Aging successfully - a post inspired by the book Successful Aging in which author Daniel J. Levitin argues for a very different vision of old age, one that sees the elderly as a resource rather than as a burden and aging as a culmination rather than as a denouement
  • [2023-10-19] Avoiding loneliness and staying connected - factors that increase one's risk of social isolation and concrete suggestions for staying connected with others
  • [2023-10-26] Talent and passion - simple formula for retirement: (1) develop your talents to the fullest, and (2) leave the world a better place